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Best marriages mean support, love, hard work and a little fire. So let me ask you do you have that same fire right now that you had when you met your spouse? I am gonna share some awesome and practical ideas with you that will make you both fall over in love with each other again.
Have a look at these 10 ways that can be a life saver🙂
1.SEND LOVE TEXTS TO YOUR SPOUSE
I know life is busy and finding time to text each other just to say I LOVE YOU is not your priority but let me tell you this should be your PRIORITY! Let me tell you why? The reason is, we get busy with life so much that we forget to express love. Love is there, no doubt, but we just don’t express it anymore. Reasons may be like we don’t have time, we don’t think we need that anymore, we are grownups, we have kids, we know we love each other, we don’t need the feel to express love, texting is childish and a lot more. But these are just excuses. Don’t do that, and send a text with I LOVE YOU to your spouse and let them know you are missing them.
2.ABOUT THE KIDS FOR A DAY
I know, forgetting about kids is almost an impossible option but don’t worry, I got you covered. I am a mother and I cannot even think of leaving my kids anywhere. But sometimes I do that, and that’s completely normal. This won’t make you a bad mommy or a bad daddy trust me. If you have a baby sitter, hire her. If you have a family, your in-laws, your close friend, ask them to look after your kids for a day or even for a
3.DRESS-UP LIKE YOUR SPOUSE LIKES IT
I know many of you would say, this isn’t necessary. But trust me, dressing up plays a big role. Imagine going back home after a tough 9 to 5 job and finding your spouse in a smelly shirt and unwashed face. I know motherhood is hard, I find it hard some days but this is not impossible. I am not asking you to do it every day. Just do it some days when you feel like doing it. Like on a Thursday night, when the next day is already a weekend. You can just change your dress, wear your favorite perfume and a Lipstick, hardly 10 minutes of your day. Wouldn’t you do it for the sake of your marriage? Do it! It goes for husbands and wives both.
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4.COMPLIMENT YOUR SPOUSE MORE
If you like something your spouse does, SAY IT.
If you like something your spouse is wearing, SAY IT.
If you like the food your wife cooks, SAY IT.
If you like the way your wife cares for your kids, SAY IT.
If you like your husband taking care of you and finances, SAY IT.
JUST SAY IT. Expressing love and complimenting is always a good idea. I know what my husband likes to hear so I tell him often 🙂 trust me this works wonders.
5.DON’T UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF TOUCH
Many of you would be thinking this is not we should be doing but why not? You can hold hands, give a small goodbye or a goodnight kiss and anything you feel like doing it. This is not a sin trust me. Even in front of your kids, you can hold your husband’s hand. Don’t panic when he touches you, if he likes to touch you, that’s a good sign that he loves you and wants you. Don’t you want that?
6.THINK BEYOND TO-DO-LISTS
We all get so busy after marriage and kids that we just keep working on to-do-lists and schedules. Pick up kids from school, drop off kids, get grocery done, get
7.MAKE LITTLE GESTURES OF LOVE
Slipping a little I LOVE YOU note in your husband’s wallet or his lunch box is a great idea. Just like this, if you are a husband, you can write a love you note and leave it on the counter of your kitchen or stick it to the mirror. These small gestures mean a lot trust me. Your spouse will love it.
8.GIVE MORE SURPRISES
Everyone loves getting surprises. You don’t have to go over the board to plan a surprise. It can be a little thing like, DON’T COOK THE DINNER TONIGHT and get a pizza while going home. Get a piece of pastry or a cake while going home. Your spouse will love it. Make an extra dessert at home if you think you have some extra time. Things like this always work.
9.GIVE IMPORTANCE TO INTIMATE MOMENTS
If you ask a couple who has been together for 10 years of more, they will tell you intimacy maybe the last thing on their minds while having kids and life problems together. That is right, I agree. But never underestimate the importance of being intimate with your spouse. Your spouse is given to you by God so that you can love each other and enjoy this intimacy together. I don’t wanna get started on the happiness hormones that our bodies release during intimate moments because that is an entirely different topic. But believe me, by loving your spouse more, by being intimate, you are not only favoring yourself and your partner but also your marriage. So, create intimate moments just like you create your to-do-lists.
10.FOCUS ON GOOD THINGS MORE
Everyone has flaws and nobody is perfect but focusing the bad things that your spouse does will only hurt your marriage. Instead of highlighting the flaws, why don’t we focus and appreciate the good things that our partners do? Try to do that and feel the difference. 🙂
Marriage is a wonderful relation but sometimes unexpected problems come and we feel like there is no way out. Comparing our spouses with others is another thing we do and end up getting stressed up. Never do that! I hope you like the tips I have shared above 🙂
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Lots of love,
A SUPER TIRED MOM