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So my birthday is almost here.. Yayyyy.. Well no yayyyy because I am gona be another year older..few last years before I leave my 20s.. I don’t want that to happen but well, that’s another topic.. So my husband asked me what i want this year for my birthday 🙂 and promised me he will get me whatever I want. 

You know after having kids, you celebrate your kids birthdays more and view their special days as super special and don’t look forward to your own Birthdays. Their birthdays always make you feel so blessed as these days mark the anniversary of those times when we welcomed those little angels in our lives. So I always forget about celebrating my birthday. 

So today when my husband asked me WHAT I WANT FOR MY BIRTHDAY, I am gonna tell him how to make me happy and feel blessed on my special day. So lets start the list 🙂 ha ha 

Just Focus on me 


I focus on everyone else throughout the year, my kids, my husband, my family and everything else. I know I love them all and they love me too and I also know that my husband loves me more than anything. But you see, my needs and my wants are always pushed back because being a mother, I have to take care of needs of those little people that we have produced over the years and take care of the home that we have built. After getting married and then giving birth to kids, my life revolves around those blessings. I love that, but sometime I feel I need little more focus too. So I want this focus on my birthday.  

I wana wake up without any alarms, without anybody jumping on me and asking me for a pre breakfast snack. Would you take care of that dear husband? 

No cooking and cleaning 


So another thing I want is a day off from cooking and cleaning. That doesn’t mean I don’t like to cook for my family, I just want to take a break and enjoy take outs and dining out éspecially for my birthday. That also doesn’t mean we don’t go out and dine out, I just want this to do on my day, to make me feel special. I would love to go to my favorite restaurant that day.

Some pampering session 


I don’t even remember when was the last time I went salon 🙁 after having kids, I have stopped going for any treatments because I don’t even get time. Please no judgments that you can get time and etc. I know I don’t prioritize myself but on my birthday, I wana change that and I want to feel good 🙂 Be it an hour long massage or a pedicure or a blowdry.. I just want to spend sometime just for myself and I wana look good. Not for anybody, but for myself.  

Little appreciation too 

I know that my family and everyone appreciates me and the way I manage everything but on my special day, I want my husband to tell me how blessed he feels while having me beside him. I want to hear those beautiful words just like movies because why not, afterall its my birthday, right 🙂 

So this is the list of the things I want on my birthday 🙂 maybe I am asking a little too much but this is what I want because you asked me dear husband! 

If you loved reading this, Don’t forget to share it with your friends as this is the only thing I could ask from you 🙂 lol yeah kidding. And do subscribe so that you don’t miss new posts 🙂

Your loving wife, 



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